F1 - Formula of the One

Sometime ago, Ade was sharing with us what her pastor told her about the top 3 criteria when guys and girls look for in their significant other.

What guys look for in a girl:
- Recreational companionship
- Attractiveness
- Admiration

What girls look for in a guy:
- Communication
- Affection
- Honesty

I'm not going to start the whole guy-bashing debate about how guys are shallow and egoistical because I know men and women are clearly from different planets. What I'm saying is that I agree with what her pastor said because to me, it's the heart and soul that really matters.

And I know I have to be really specific in my prayers as well because Ade shared with us about her personal relationship matters, so here is my formula of The One:

- An optimist and a go-getter (like me!)
- Inspires and motivates me to be the best that I can be
- Loves travelling and sports
- Cracks me up with his brand of humour
- A good conversationalist, so we can talk on the phone throughout the night, snuggled under blankets in our respective beds
- Treats his family and even strangers with kindness and respect
- Stands up for me when people talk crap about me
- Knows when to give in to my whims and fancies and when to be firm with me
- Reads me like a book and knows how I'm feeling based on my non-verbal communication/ body language
- Drops me lil notes into my bag/ wallet occasionally when I'm not looking and knows that I prefer gerberas over sunflowers
- Has hands like mine that get really hot and cold for no reason, so that I know I'm not alone
- Understands my need for personal space and freedom
- Has a smile that has the warmth of the sun, eyes that sparkles with enthusiasm for Life, has a toned and fit body and tall...
- And it's most awesome if he looks like this:

Hahahaha!! =D

So God and my guardian angels, I have faith in you and the Law of Attraction that you'll lead the One into my life. You know I'll not settle for anything less than the best and I'm saving all my loving for someone who's deserving because I'm tired of meeting Mr. Right Nows.

I understand it's going to take sometime for you to find someone with that exact package, but I'll wait patiently. Because this defenseless heart of mine can't handle anymore unnecesary heartaches...